River Cruises vs. Ocean Cruises: Our Honest Take After Doing Both

We used to think all cruises were basically the same — you unpack once, let the world glide past your window, and wake up somewhere new each morning. And while that part holds true, we quickly learned that river cruises and ocean cruises offer very different experiences.

Having done both, I wanted to share what stood out to me on each — the highs, the trade-offs, and which one might be the better fit depending on what you're looking for.

1. Where You’re Going Makes All the Difference

River Cruises
When we took our first river cruise through Europe last Fall, we were blown away by how close we got to the heart of the cities. One morning, we were in a little town in Germany and touring a castle within minutes of stepping off the boat, and another we were in the beautiful city of Vienna. The scenery — castles, vineyards, charming villages — was like something out of a storybook. These cruises really are about cultural immersion, and we were often docked steps away from cathedrals, markets, or museums.

Ocean Cruises
Ocean cruises, on the other hand, have taken us to places we wouldn't have otherwise seen — small Caribbean Islands, European Sea Ports, and across the Atlantic. The ships are made for long hauls, and while the destinations are incredible, the ports tend to be a bit further out, so getting into town usually means hopping on a shuttle or excursion bus. Still, if you want to cover serious ground, this is the way to go.

2. Let’s Talk Ships

River Cruise Ships
The first time we boarded the river ship, I was struck by how intimate it felt. No crowds, no over-the-top entertainment — just a sleek, hotel-like vibe with 150 passengers. It felt more like staying in a boutique hotel that happened to float. Our stateroom had a great view where we could watch the amazing scenery float by, and the lounges were perfect for relaxing, and chatting with others after a day of sightseeing.

Ocean Cruise Ships
Ocean ships? Whole different ballgame. Some ships we have been on have had more than 4,000 passengers — and it felt like its own city. There were theaters, waterslides, endless restaurants, and a mini golf course. If you love variety and entertainment (and don’t mind crowds), these ships are a dream. Personally, We prefer  a smaller ship that don't feel as crowded.

3. Daily Rhythm & What You Do Ashore

River Cruises
River cruise days were packed — in a good way. We had guided walking tours, bus tours to medieval villages, wine tastings, museum visits — all included, by the way. And since we mostly docked overnight, we were able to go out after dinner to explore some more without worrying about getting back before the ship sailed. Evenings were quiet and relaxed — usually dinner, a little live music, and then turning in early.

Ocean Cruises
With ocean cruises, the rhythm was more varied. Some days were all about exploring; others were “sea days,” where we lounged by the pool, got a massage, or dove into a good book. Excursions cost extra and often started early with larger groups, but there was more flexibility to pick what we wanted to do. It definitely felt more like a mix of vacation styles — sightseeing and resort life.

4. Who You’re Cruising With

River Cruises
On the river cruise, most of our fellow travelers were 50 and up — thoughtful, curious types who were really into history and culture. There weren't any kids, which made things quiet and calm. If you’re looking for nightlife or a party atmosphere, this isn’t it. But if you want deep conversations over some good food, drinks, and stunning scenery, you’re in good company.

Ocean Cruises
Ocean cruises attract everyone — couples, friend groups, families with toddlers, and retirees. There’s something for every age group. We appreciated the energy, especially when traveling with friends, and the sheer variety of things to do kept us all entertained. Just know it can get busy and loud, especially on the big ships.

5. What’s Included — and What’s Not

River Cruises
Upfront, river cruises looked pricier, but once we factored in what was included — excursions, Wi-Fi, drinks with meals, even gratuities — the value was clear. We didn’t have to think much about extra costs during the trip, which made things feel more effortless.

Ocean Cruises
With ocean cruises, the sticker price was lower — but add-ons piled up. Excursions, drinks, internet, tips, specialty dining — they all cost extra. It’s not a deal-breaker, but we had to budget more carefully and plan ahead to avoid surprises.

So, Which One’s Better?

Honestly? It depends on what you’re after.

Choose a river cruise if...
You love history, wine tastings, charming old towns, and a slower, more intimate pace with plenty of perks baked in.

Go for an ocean cruise if...
You’re all about big entertainment, tropical beach days, dining options galore, or want something fun for the whole family.

My Final Take

There’s no clear “winner” — both have their own kind of magic. We’ve loved sitting out on deck, drifting past the castles on the Danube just as much as We’ve enjoyed dancing under the stars somewhere in the Caribbean. The best part? You don’t have to choose just one. Try both and see which one speaks to you.

For us, we will continue to do both.  

Bon voyage, wherever you go next.