The Wedding Vase

 

Many years ago we were traveling through Alberta and British Columbia.  We came across this beautiful piece of pottery.  It was simple, but so different. Two spouts, one body, connected by a handle.  

It is representative of the First Nations and Inuit population of Canada, and the meaning behind the vessel really spoke to us.

The Wedding Vase

A wedding vase is a symbolic piece of pottery, traditionally used to represent the joining of two people. The design usually features two spouts connected to a single chamber, often with a handle linking them.

In many traditions, during a wedding ceremony, each person drinks from one spout at the same time. The idea is simple: two individuals sharing from the same source, in balance and cooperation. If one person drinks too quickly or without regard for the other, it doesn’t quite work - so it’s a bit of a gentle metaphor for how a partnership should function.

While versions of wedding vases are often associated with different Indigenous cultures, including some in North America, the exact meaning and use can vary. What they tend to share, though, is that core idea of unity, respect, and working together.

A Special Meaning for Us

At the time, that meaning felt nice and straightforward - connection, partnership, a shared path.

Years later, we are still reminded of that connection whenever we look at it.

It’s about sticking things out. About adjusting to each other over time. About all the little routines and shared decisions that make up a life together.

This is a travel momento that will always have a special place in our home.